The older Kit gets, the less confident he feels judging other people as spouses or parents. These days, driving past the home of the Naked Hemp Society, he finds himself more curious than contemptuous about their easily ridiculed New Age ways. Why shouldn't they nurse their babies till age four? Why shouldn't they want to keep their children away from factory-farmed meats, from clothing soaked in fire-retardant chemicals, from dull-witted burned-out public school teachers whose tenure is all too easily approved? Why not frolic naked in the sprinkler---under the full moon, perhaps? Why not turn one's family into a small nurturing country protected by a virtual moat? . Julia Glass
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When Kit says, “The older Kit gets, the less confident he feels judging other people”, he is talking about his wife’s parents who are not strict enough. He says, “Kit is getting old himself, so he doesn’t feel comfortable judging other people anymore. He thinks the best way to judge others is through the example they set for their children. He also thinks that there are many things that can be done that are not considered acceptable by society.

Source: And The Dark Sacred Night

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